‘They Are Not Who You Think!’ — How a Parent’s Warning About Greedy Relatives Saved Me From Losing Everything
I never thought I would hear those words from my father: “They are not who you think.” At the time, I didn’t understand the weight of his warning. I thought he was being overly cautious, maybe even paranoid. But now, looking back, I realize those words saved me from one of the worst mistakes of my life.
I am Kevin. I had recently inherited a small piece of land in Kisii from my late uncle, a property that had been in the family for generations. Excited and naive, I began to make plans — a new house, a small business, and even renting part of the land to friends. I felt proud of myself, thinking I was finally stepping into financial independence.
It all started innocently. Relatives from my late uncle’s side, people I grew up trusting, began visiting more often. They laughed with me, shared memories, and seemed genuinely interested in my life. They asked about the property, offered “advice” on construction, and even suggested helping me manage the land. I welcomed their support. After all, family was supposed to be trustworthy.
