“My Girlfriend Nowadays Doesn’t Play With Me in Bed Like She Used To — Until I Found the Truth,” Pained Man Says
For a long time, I thought our relationship was perfect. My girlfriend and I had been together for several years. From the outside, people admired us. We laughed together, traveled together, and seemed inseparable. But over the past few months, something had changed — something I couldn’t explain.
She no longer played with me in bed the way she used to. The passion we once shared had dwindled. I tried to ignore it at first, telling myself it was stress, work, or fatigue. I even joked with friends that maybe “love cools down with time.” But deep inside, I knew it was more than that. Something had shifted, and it hurt me deeply.
I began noticing little signs. She avoided intimate moments. She was distant during conversations, less affectionate, and always seemed preoccupied. I tried talking to her about it gently, asking if something was wrong, or if I had done something to upset her. Each time, she would smile, say everything was fine, and reassure me. But the coldness remained.
The longer it went on, the more I started feeling insecure. I couldn’t sleep properly. My mind raced at night, imagining all sorts of possibilities — had she fallen out of love with me? Was she seeing someone else? Was it something I did? The pain grew heavier each day. I felt powerless, confused, and heartbroken all at the same time.
I tried everything I could think of. I brought flowers, planned romantic evenings, tried to be more attentive, and even gave her space when she seemed distant. Nothing worked. Every attempt seemed to push her further away. I felt like a stranger in my own relationship. I was desperate for answers.
