I Was Always Rejected in Relationships and Struggled Financially Until My Life Took a Sudden Turn

For as long as I can remember, rejection felt like a permanent mark on my life. Every relationship I entered ended the same way—disappointment, silence, or sudden abandonment. I was never “the one.” I was always the lesson, the trial, the person people passed through on their way to happiness. Each breakup left me more broken than the last, and slowly, my confidence disappeared. I began to believe that something was fundamentally wrong with me.
My financial situation mirrored my love life—unstable and painful. No matter how hard I worked, money slipped through my hands. I took jobs that drained me physically and emotionally, yet my struggles never reduced. I lived from hand to mouth, borrowing to survive and repaying with shame. Friends I once shared dreams with moved ahead in life, while I remained stuck, explaining the same problems year after year.
The pressure from society was unbearable. Family gatherings became interrogation rooms. “Why are you still single?” “What are you doing with your life?” I laughed it off on the outside, but inside I was dying. I avoided weddings, baby showers, and celebrations because they reminded me of everything I didn’t have. At night, I lay awake questioning my destiny, wondering if success and love were reserved for other people.





