They Praised Me When I Had Money, But the Moment I Lost Everything, They Pretended I Never Existed
I learned a hard lesson about people and money — one that I will never forget. For years, I believed that loyalty and friendship were stronger than wealth. I believed that the people I trusted would stay by my side no matter the circumstances. I believed in their smiles, their praises, and the so-called “family bonds.” But I was wrong. Everything I thought about people changed the moment my money disappeared.
When I was successful, life seemed easy. I had a business that was growing, a house I was proud of, and friends who called me whenever they needed advice or help. They came to my house, ate my food, praised my work, and called me generous. Every birthday, every achievement, every little success was celebrated. I thought I was blessed to have such supportive friends and family around me.
I spent money helping others — sometimes giving without being asked, sometimes lending without expecting anything in return. I wanted to share my blessings because I believed in community, in lifting others up. I gave people opportunities, helped them start businesses, paid school fees, and even helped relatives settle debts. I thought that generosity would create lasting bonds. I thought love and loyalty were stronger than material things.
