used to feel trapped in a cycle I could not understand. No matter how many times I promised myself I would do better, I kept making the same mistakes with friendships, relationships, and even in simple decisions about money or career.
Each time, the consequences were heavier, and the shame grew stronger. I began to wonder if I was just unlucky, careless, or cursed in some way.
It wasn’t until a friend noticed my frustration that I considered the possibility that these repeated errors were not random.
